In recent years, the phrase “soft life” has become the mantra for many young Nigerians — especially on social media. You hear it everywhere:
“I can’t come and kill myself.”
“I’m living the soft life.”
But what does this really mean in the Nigerian context?
Let’s gist. 👇🏽
💭 What Is “Soft Life”?
The “soft life” isn’t about being lazy or dodging hard work. It’s about choosing ease, peace, enjoyment, and intentional living, even in the middle of Nigeria’s everyday wahala. For some, it’s sipping cocktails at Moist Beach, Lagos on a Sunday afternoon. For others, it’s staying in their comfy apartment, burning scented candles, watching Netflix, and enjoying Indomie and fried plantain.
It’s about prioritizing joy and not letting society pressure you into unnecessary stress.
💼 Is It About Money?
Well… yes and no.
Living the soft life doesn’t always mean you have to be rolling in millions. While money helps (of course), soft living is more about how you treat yourself.
You can go on budget-friendly staycations, like visiting Jabi Lake Mall in Abuja or spending time at Lekki Conservation Centre, where the entrance fee won’t stress your bank account.
You don’t need ₦1M in your account to choose peace of mind.
🧘🏽♀️ It’s in the Little Things
Soft life in Nigeria might look like:
- Ordering food instead of sweating in the kitchen after a long day
- Choosing Uber over danfo when you can afford it
- Saying “no” to stress and toxic friendships
- Doing your skincare routine and playing your favorite Spotify playlist
It’s giving intentional living and saying “I deserve this.”
Want more affordable ways to live stress-free? Check out our guide on Affordable Places to Relax in Lagos or Abuja.
🌍 Soft Life vs “Hard Guy”
Culturally, We Nigerians are taught to hustle hard. There’s this belief that if you’re not suffering, you’re not doing it right. But Gen Zs and Millennials are flipping that script — working smart, choosing joy, and protecting their peace.
Some now prioritize remote jobs and freelancing. If you’re interested in that life, read our post on how to make money online in Nigeria — it’s full of soft-life friendly options.
💡 Final Thoughts
The soft life is not just a trend — it’s a mindset. In a country where things can be tough, choosing ease where possible is an act of self-love. It’s about resting, enjoying the small wins, and refusing to let the pressure kill you.
So whether it’s sipping Chapman at a poolside or listening to Asa on a cool evening, remember — you deserve the soft life. 🌸
